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i had one more question.... if a guy is sterail (i probly didnt spell that right, sorry) is it still a good idea to make him wear a condom just to makesure. and if he dosent need a condom is it a good idea for him to still pull out instead of cuming inside the girl? me and my boyfriend think that he might be strail, thats why im asking
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So, "might be sterile" and "sterile" are two different things. Has he been tested by a doctor? Does he have papers proving that he is sterile? Unfortunately, some people might say they're sterile in order to make you think it's "safe" to go without barriers like condoms. Or maybe they're just assuming based on random strange ideas. So asking more questions is a good idea.
Plus, besides the pregnancy risk - there is an STI/infection risk with going w/out barriers. We recommend that if you're monogamous (meaning, you're both only having sex with each other and no one else) for at least 6 months - then get STI tests at a doctor or clinic. If you're both clear of STI's then it's "safe" to go without barriers/condoms.
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hes gonna get tested soon for it, and he wouldnt lie about it so he dosent have to wear a condom. he trys and make sure that he has one on when we do it. The reason we think hes sterile is because he gets hit in the nuts....ALOT, 24/7 almost. Also we are still using a condom till he gets tested and then after maybe.
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How about BOTH of you get some condoms and keep them on hand, or don't engage in those kinds of sex when you don't have them?
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we do both have condoms on hand for when ever we get into the mood. i was just woundering if him being hit in the two hanging men below so much could make him sterile. and if he turns out to be would it still be a good idea to make him wear a condom... also if he is steraile and he cums dose that mean no sperm is prduced but white stuff still comes out? or nothing comes out? if you could answer this it would be helpful =) thanks
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If he has had serious testicular injuries (most typically the kind that mean hospital visits), then that is possible, yes.
If and when someone with a penis is infertile, no, that does not mean they will not ejaculate.
And regardless, STIs can still occur no matter what someone's issues are with sperm cells, and unless someone had had fertility tests done which show they are infertile, then not protecting against pregnancy would not be wise. So yes, condom use is still important here.
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