Let me first start by saying, I did read "Squirt: On Female Ejaculation" and found it quite enlightening. I also googled the thought, and came up with TONS of conflicting information. So for those with experience in the matter, I just have a couple of questions, some of which may not have answers
OK, first off, my honey is out of town for two weeks, so when I found a 4$ vibe on amazon that was touted as great at hitting the G-Spot (something I've been interested in experimenting with) I figured it was worth the gamble. The first couple of times I used it were plenty fun, but nothing out of the ordinary. Tonight, I had been focusing on the g-spot (or at least what i'm assuming is the g spot, and is certainly a spot I'll be paying more attention to in future )then switched to some pretty intense vibes on the clitoral area. during either my third or fourth O of the night, gush! To be honest, it surprised me more than anything, and I instantly clenched. I think maybe a teaspoon got out, but if I hadn't clenched, it would have been a LOT. Like, REALLY a lot, definitely more than my man usually makes.
Not wanting to sleep in a puddle, I immediately hit the restroom. Emptied a tiny amount of urine, (maybe 1/8 cup? urine measurements sound weird!) and was done with the whole business.
Now, I do experience urine leakage occasionally, with a cough or a sneeze, but only sometimes. When I have ANY kind of arousal, I always feel a little like I have to pee, but have always held it back, not wanting to pee everywhere (a pretty reasonable way to feel, I think), so I don't know if this is an extreme of my typical sexual response or something new.
so my questions are this?
1. The liquid coming out didn't really smell like anything and didn't look yellow (although this is based on a spot on my green comforter and I'm usually really hydrated), but had I let go, there would definitely have been enough liquid to soak through sheets. Do I need to be concerned for my mattress pad? I think a towel would probably contain it, but will it start to get icky or smell or anything if it gets on the mattress pad?
2. Nobody seems completely clear as to whether the fluid coming out is urine or not. Is it safe for urine, or urine-like-juices to be in the vagina? IS there some kind of germs or bacteria that would make it inadvisable for the fluid to works it's way into my vag in the course of more in-and-out?
3. I don't honestly believe that oral stimulation from my guy would trigger this, but just in case, does anyone have any opinion on the taste? I don't want to give him a nasty surprise just when he's having fun if it tastes icky!
Thanks for the thoughts!!!
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Urine really can't get inside your vagina, save maybe a stray drop or two, because the urinary opening urine comes out of isn't inside the vagina. It's between the vaginal opening and the clitoral glans, externally.
Whether or not a partner likes the taste of any body fluid -- be it semen, any kind of vaginal fluid, urine or anything else -- tends to be a very individual thing. How those fluids taste can also be somewhat individual. So, this is one of those things where you and your partner would just have to see how y'all felt about it.
Generally, if you know you might ejaculate, since it does tend to be a very thin fluid, and can be profuse, it is usually wide to use a towel or have your body be somewhere where you don't have to worry about items like mattresses that are tough to clean.
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