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Hi there. I'm a woman and I had a question for women--when you are trying to achieve orgasm, do you find that you have to sort of mentally "go toward" it? It's hard to explain, and it's not even about getting into the right mental state or anything, but to get myself there I have to concentrate on sort of "reaching toward" it. That's not something that my boyfriend has to do--it seems basically effortless for him--and I was wondering if it was something other women have to do, or if it's just me.
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Honestly, everyone's different so experiences will be as well. But what you're describing is totally normal.

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I get what you mean . like you have almost push yourself to that state ??

i kinda do that some times .. othertimes its easy

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I find it easier to just not think about the orgasm at all. The more I reach for it, the longer it takes to reach or I don't get one at all. My advice is to try relaxing and just enjoy yourself instead of striving for just one moment. Sort of like not being able to see the forest through the trees, ya know?
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