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Ranna
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I am honestly just curious! I know some women don't really feel strongly one way or another, and some women don't like it at all. I think I can understand those two points of view. I've never had intercourse, so I thought I'd ask! Why do some women have a desire to have intercourse (at some point in their sexual activity) with their guy? Besides the fact that they want to please him [Smile] What makes it appealing to the woman in a pleasurable/sensual sense?

I guess this isn't really a scientific question, but... a question none the less! XD

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Heather
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Can we be more inclusive with a question like this, bearing in mind that activities with entry are also appealing to people who aren't women, and who are or can also be the partner being entered? As well, that there are women who engage in intercourse with partners who aren't male?

I'd feel better about that since the way you asked it makes it a question that suggests enjoying entry is about gender or could only be something heterosexual women enjoy or could experience.

It may be about gender or the gender of a partner in some ways for some people, but it may not be for others, but since potentially enjoying being entered with a kind of intercourse isn't just about women or women with male partners, howsabout we broaden your question?

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Heather
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(You might also find some answers to start with here: Let's Get Metaphysical: The Etiquette of Entry)

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Ranna
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Oh, I'm sorry! I didn't mean to exclude anyone from the conversation. I just asked it that way because I want to try and understand what it feels like from a woman's point of view, since I am a woman interested in a male sex partner. But if anyone else would like to share experiences different then that, by all means! I am interested in what everyone has to say [Smile]
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Mortality
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There is only really one reason why I'm interested in intercourse: it feels good.
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Heather
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No need to be sorry! [Smile]

I also just expect that you probably wouldn't have gotten the answers you wanted that way, anyway. Women, as a group, are billions of people, and we're all very diverse. The idea that "women" are going to feel any one given set of ways about a sexual activity is probably based in the ideas that a) sexuality is a lot more simple than it is and b) based a lot more on gender than it is.

In other words, my point of view as a woman could be totally different from yours, Mortality's or millions of women. What your own experiences will be aren't something you're going to be able to predict based on other women just because you share a set of chromosomes, gonads, or that word to identify yourself. [Smile]

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Jill2000Plus
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I just enjoy it, I rather like having part of my partner inside my vagina (or mouth for that matter), plus, while it isn't always the most intense sensation, the second to last time I did it it felt incredibly good (this was vagina-penis intercourse), it was so pleasurable and I really want to figure out what it is we did that made it like that.

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I'm a newbie to sex (well, technically intercourse), and while I haven't had the big O with intercourse, I still enjoy it. It feels good, just not "good enough" quite yet. I imagine I'll get there at some point. My mom told me it took her nearly a year before it was "good" for her, if you know what I mean (yeah, that was sort of an awkward conversation, lol).

Anyway, it's also sort of a turn-on (for me) to have my bf inside me. It feels very bonding. Not to mention it makes me feel good (turned on even) to know that I make him feel good. [Smile] Of course, that goes for non-intercourse activities also.

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