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sadnessteen
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Ok so i had the opportunity to be with my boyfriend this whole weeken together. to be honest we have never had intercourse but somehow we want to. Yet never happens due to our conscious.

However, one day we took a shower together. we played around...and really idk if i can get pregnant or not just by that!

Also we kinda had dry-on too...*sighs*

I just dont feel secure and im worried to get pregnant!

Help please!! [Frown]

[ 05-24-2010, 01:46 PM: Message edited by: sadnessteen ]

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Gingerbread
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Unprotected genital to genital contact does pose some risk, so if he was rubbing his penis directly on your vagina, that would be considered to have the same effectiveness rates as withdrawal, which is 96% with perfect use and 74% with typical use.
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peterg
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if you'd like to clarify, please be mmore clear on what you mean by "fooling around" what kind of things did you do?
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sadnessteen
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well not really he never penetrated me. he was just rubbin his penis on my butt thats all.

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Karybu
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sadnessteen, have you seen this article yet? What's the Risk? Easy Pregnancy Risk Assessments Have a read through, and if you still have any questions about your particular situation, come on back and ask.

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sadnessteen
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Well I kinda have an understanding of many things now thank you for the article [Smile]

Yet I still have a question. I spoke with my bf and he said that he didnt feel nothing coming out while he was runnin his penis on my butt. So is that a good sign?

Also, is it a good idea to just take a Plan B pill just in case? its only been few hours since it happened so...is that a good idea?

I'm so worried [Frown] I'm scared of the side effects of the pills.

Any advice on that?

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Karybu
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As long as there was no direct genital contact, and no ejaculate came in contact with your vulva, I don't see a need for Plan B, no. It's up to you, and if you need it to lower your stress levels, then absolutely go ahead, but from what you've described it would be an unnecessary dose of hormones.

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