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mcguire1495
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ok, so my mom would sometimes talk 2 me about having sex and how it would kinda hurt and bleed a lil. but lately ive been wondering about how bad it would hurt and if i really wanted to have sex. i also dont really think the bleeding during sex would be a nice thing during sex, how bad does it hurt ur first time? how bad do you bleed?
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Heather
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Actually, most women do NOT experience bleeding.

As well, while pain can happen, it is often mostly preventable, and doesn't tend to happen just because someone is having intercourse for the first time.

Here are a couple links to get you started:
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/one_bloody_mess_myths_realities_of_bleeding_with_first_intercourse
From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse
Let's Get Metaphysical: The Etiquette of Entry

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AAAZZZ
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HEY..M 19YR old...i m having PCOS problem from past 6 months...M lil worried...N ma boyfrnd wants to have sex...i jus wanna knw is it safe to have sex during dis PCOS PROBLEM....ma doc has suggested me to get done ultrosonography of abdomen & pelvis..wil dey come to know if i had sex or not during dis scanning...??

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robot_on_fire
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sex is fine with PCOS, i have it.


No the scan wont be able to tell if you have had sex or not.

However its best to get the scan done before you have sex just to see if everything is ok.

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AAAZZZ
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YA FINE THANX:)

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