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Me and my boyfriend of 4 years had sex for the first time on January 15 and it was.. okay. It didn't feel that great, but of course to him it was amazing since he had an orgasm. But we had sex again today and it did nothing for me. I was actually kind of bored.. I don't know what we're doing wrong! I know that we have only done it twice but I want it to get better. I want to have an orgasm or actually have it feel good for me.

Any advice on how it can feel better for me? He's upset that he can't pleasure me. We've been doing the missionary position, I guess, and I've gotten on top of him once. Any special positions that feel good for a woman?

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By sex, do you mean intercourse?

If so, why don't you take a look at these links first, okay? Then we can talk some more.

With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body
Yield for Pleasure
The Great No-Orgasm-from-Intercourse Conundrum

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Do u usually have orgasm when u masturbate? Have sufficient foreplay before sex. If you boyfriend cums too quickly he may be having problem of premature ejaculation; in that case he should see a doctor.
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It took four times till i started to enjoy it - then we broke up (for other reasons) so i haven't done it since but from my experience it has gotten better each time [Smile]

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