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dru.clair.06
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ive dated only guys but, Ive always had thoughts about talking to girl. Sometimes I get scared about how people may percieve me if they found out I like girls. I'm just not sure because everytime I get my feelings hurt or heart borken by a guy I think about moving to the next gender because of the way guys act. I dont know what to do at this point and I dont know what I want....????
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I'll be frank: choosing to date one gender because you don't like the other gender doesn't make any sense. Who we choose to date should be about who we DO like, not who we don't.

Plus, women can behave any number of ways, as can men. And we can get our hearts broken the same ways with women as we can with men. Women aren't somehow automatically "safer" then men.

Rather than worrying about others' perceptions first, why don't we try and first identify if you are even sexually and emotionally attracted to women in the first place?

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dru.clair.06
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In a sense I am attracted to girls, but I still like guys. I'm just not sure how to approach the situation and I have so much to learn as I grow and mature.
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