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I recently lost my virginity. I am having sex with this guy who's average (penis) size. We usually stare out by doing missionary but he always wants me to go on top. Not only am I really uncomfortable with my body so I don't like being in full view of him but I'm having trouble "mastering" the position. I'm not able to keep him in me. He gets in, but after I go up once it comes out. How can I keep him in? I really want to keep him happy.

Thanks for the advise

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Hey taylormarie,
It sounds like you just need a bit more practice and patience. Exactly how you position yourself is going to be unique to your body and your partner's body, so I can't really help much there except to recommend some no-pressure experimentation.
As for being uncomfortable with your body, you might want to check out a few of these:
10 of the Best Things You Can Do for Your Sexual Self (at Any Age)
Seven Ways to Love Your Body
Finally, you shouldn't feel like you need to perform a certain sexual act in order to keep your partner happy. That's generally not a very healthy thing in a relationship and can lead to larger issues down the road. You can check out this article:
Potholes & Dead Ends: Relationship Roadblocks to Look Out For
And a couple more general articles that might interest you:
Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist
Safer Sex...for Your Heart

[ 11-29-2008, 01:28 AM: Message edited by: pyro_angel ]


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