hello. im new to this site and i found it searchin for answers to my prolbem that i have been having... me and my girlfriend will have been dating coming up on 3 months and we have had sex. were both 17. up until recently we had sex fine but like a week ago i couldnt get hard.. or i would get hard and lose it during intercourse.. i have read that its just stages im goin though and that worring bout it doesnt help.. but i cant help it.. she is gettin frustrated and she says shes ovr it now but i can tell she is gettin impatience.. we love each other alot and plan on goin to the same college and being wit each other and she says that shes not gnna leave me over this and i believe her... i just need to kno wat to do.. i can get hard and then it goes away and sumtimes i cant even get hard idk wats wrng cause before i could easliy.... please help me..
Posts: 1 | From: ohio | Registered: Sep 2008
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Well, it's true sronce. Stressing will only make the problem worse! I highly recommend that you try to just stop trying for a couple days and wait. As a male, I've been through this: sometimes there are periods where its just hard, but if you wait about 4-5 days, depending on the person, it will help to give time. If that dosen't help, see your doctor about it and let him now whats going on. Good luck!
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