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thehoss
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I'm 17 yrs old and have been masterbating since in the 8th grade. Every time I've masterbated, I've climexed easily. When I start to move up and down the shaft for a bit, I feel the pleasure and then I climax without getting at least five minutes of pleasure. Only 30 seconds or less. I hatre it! How do I last longer!? I can't imagine how I'm going to be with sex. Please help.
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Leabug
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That sounds fairly normal to me, actually.

If you want to make your session last longer, why not try doing things like varying your speed or trying touching yourself in a different way, to mix things up? For example, if you feel you're getting close to climax, switch to a different speed or motion, and let yourself calm down a little bit. That way you can make things last a little longer. But either way, do keep in mind that it's very normal to only be able to last a little bit with constant stimulation! [Smile]

(Also, just so you know, double posting is against the rules on these boards.)

[ 06-17-2008, 07:07 PM: Message edited by: Leabug ]

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thehoss
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Oh ok thank you for the advice.
But how does one last long with intercourse?
Especially if one is a virgin.
From what I see there is constant motion in sex.
Hm?

[ 06-17-2008, 07:48 PM: Message edited by: thehoss ]

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Well, you orgasm when you orgasm. There's no use trying to hold it back. Just because you orgasm once during sex doesn't mean that now the sex is over and you have to go and do something else. Even if after having an orgasm you no longer have an erection, there are always plenty of other sexual activities you can do with a partner which don't require an erection, or even a penis! In time, you may find that it takes a while longer for you to acheive orgasm, or you may not. Either way, it shouldn't cause a problem with partnered sex.

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thehoss
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Oh alright but i just dont get why I climax still when I masterbate. I've already tried lady's advice slowing down and it just keeps coming up. I can't stop it from climaxing. Its only brief pleasure. It stinks. [Frown]

[ 06-17-2008, 08:36 PM: Message edited by: thehoss ]

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Well, you might try using different techniques to masturbate, including some that don't require or limit the use of your hands. (I'm afraid I can't really give you any specific ones as I'm kinda lacking a penis, and what works for one person doesn't always work for another. Plus it's always more fun to experiment on your own than to follow some outline or charts.) Another thing is if you are using porn when you masturbate you could try cutting out the porn to see if it makes a difference.

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Alright thanks
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