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reonz
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My boyfriend and I had sex today for the first time. He was a virgin, but I wasn't. We used regular lubricated trojans, but he said it was too tight, almost painful...I haven't seen that many penises, I'm only seventeen, but he doesn't look bigger than average...
My question is how do we figure out if he needs a bigger condom (wider) and what's the difference? (in condom sizes)
I'm most afraid of trying a bigger condom and having it slip off.
Thanks!

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Heather
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Where did he say the condom felt tight? All over, or only at the vase?

And were you using EXTRA lubricant as adviced with those condoms, including a few drops in the tip before he put it on?

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reonz
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We weren't using extra lube, and sorry it took me so long to answer, and thanks for answering quickly...
He said it hurt on the whole upper area, but not on the base...
Of course, now I'll look into lube, but could there be another cause?
is it safe to assume it's not condom size, because the ring didn't bother him?

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