I have been sexually active for 3 years. I have had enough sex to know my own body. I know what it takes to get me aroused, but I can never come to a orgasm. No matter whether it is oral sex, masturbation, or just sex, I cant seem to get an orgasm. Some one help me! My body hates me...
Have you been to an OB/GYN yet? Normally, when uses say they can't reach orgasm through partnered sex but can through masturabation, we tel them it's just a matter of figuring out what is right for them in terms of stimulation. Sometimes it's a anxiety problem, too.
In this case though, if you can't reach orgasm by yourself, without a partner, it would be good idea to schedule an appointment with a GYN and ask them about this.
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