I am with a great man, and sex has been good, but I am scared to do other things, I am just your lay on your back kind of gal....I am scared to try new things or role play.....how do I get past this......help please....I am scared to try new things because I am worried I am doing it wrong or he want like it.....what do I do?
Posts: 2 | From: texas | Registered: Oct 2006
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Communicate! If you are with a great guy, he's going to be fine with discussing this with you. If you feel like you've gotten things started and it's not going right, that's OKAY! My boy and dI stop in the middle of new activities all the time to laugh at ourselves and move on to something else or try again. It's okay, really. You have to be comfortable with yourself and your partner to "move on" to new things. Ask him if he has ideas or suggestions.
Also, please remember that you never HAVE TO do anything. If you like where you're at and your boy does too, stick with it and worry about anything else some other day, when you ARE rerady.
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