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sara smith
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Well i few months ago i brought a vibrator. It is wonderful. I get the best feeling out of my vibrator than i do with my own boyfriend....Although i love him to death. He tries to do all things with me...but it does not work. I cannot achieve the same feeling i feel with my vibrator with my man...Thats very sad to see, but i just be wondering what else can i do achieve that kind of satisfaction.

Also, i was wondering, when i use my vibrator, i get this feeling like my body pushes the dildo out of me...i began ot shake and i start to sweat. After that feeling i get tired. I love that feeling...its the same feeling i get when i wake up with my legs are squezzed together and i get the best senstation. Is that the Big O....How can i achieve my vibrating feeling with my man that i can achieve with myself....


Help...I love my boyfriend, Is he too small for me that i am not feeling the sensation, or is it me, what can i do to achieve sensation with the man i LOVE

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catalinacisne
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Yeah, chances are the shaking/sweating is an orgasm. As for when you're with your boyfriend, are you relying only on penetration? 'cause there really aren't many nerves in the actual vaginal canal, so few women achieve orgasm through peneration alone. Direct clitoral stimulation is the best bet if you want to orgasm with your partner.

And keep in mind that no orgasm is the same, so having an orgasm with your boyfriend will probably feel a great deal different than the orgasms you're getting with your vibrator.

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sara smith
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Another question is their other things i can try in order to achive a organism with my boyfriend. How can i get clitorial stimulation with my boyfriend in what ways, when i an getting penatration at the same time? Is oral a good way....what ways could you reccomend? Also

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Only you will know what works best for you, but manual stimulation (fingering, rubbing the clitoris) is a pretty good bet. Some girls love receiving oral sex, others don't, but if your partner wants to and you are comfortable with it, and you're doing it safely... why not give it a shot?

Another idea: why not bring out the vibrator when you're with your boyfriend? Then you can both have fun bringing you to orgasm with it. An added perk- vibrations can be rather pleasurable for some guys too.

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