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joe14
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My parents are always home where should my first time be?
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a bed.
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Your first time (ideally) should be somewhere you can make all the noise you want so that you and your partner can communicate easily, and you should have condoms and lube handy. Also, make sure you and your partner are not in violation of age of consent laws.

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(twentysix, please refrain from posting if you have nothing to add to a thread - two-word posts are not helpful.)

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joe14
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which would be where? we r both 16
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The first choices would obviously be one of your houses. Other than that, we don't really know your situation ... you'll have to figure it out on your own.

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I guess you can have sex wherever you want. But be sure it is a place which is confortable.

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joe14
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thanks
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actually, you can't just have sex wherever you want. for example, if you do it in a parked car and get caught by the cops, you may be prosecuted for engaging in lewd acts. that's a sex crime, and they are not good to have on your record.

Moreover, you are both 16, and the age of consent in NY state is 17. Again, if you get caught, you may be subject to penalty under the law.

Your safest bet? Wait till you're both legal and find yourself a nice, private place where you can enjoy yourselves without fear of punishment, harassment or interruption.

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