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imlost
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Hi.. i been reading other people thread.. and i was wondering when ya mention oral sex? what exactly do you mean by that.. because ya kept on saying it would be safe to use a condom? what i thought oral sex was.. me or her going down with our mouth or fingers? correct me if im wrong please.. would like to know more infomation for future references?
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Stimulation of genitals by the mouth is what is being referred to...using fingers is referred to as fingering or manual sex. In either case it is still smart to use protection...condom for oral sex (dental dam/saran wrap can also be used on women), and latex gloves for manual sex.
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[ 08-29-2006, 11:56 PM: Message edited by: notmenow ]

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imlost
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oooic... still confuse on how would i use a condom on oral sex?? i had given this grl oral sex twice w/condom... no idea hwo to use it... and what is a dental dam? thanks a lot
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To use a condom for oral sex on a girl you would want to cut it lengthwise and place it over her genitals. A dental dam is simply a square piece of latex that you would do much the same with...stretch over her genital area to prevent your mouth from coming into direct contact with the area. And again, you can use saran wrap for the same purpose.
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oooic.. thanks a lot! i will do that next time! well i got another question... when i had sex with this grl... i would do oral sex and manuel sex on her for a long time... but when it was time for intercourse.. i tend to ejaculate about less then 2 mins once i enter her vagina.. it happen all the time...is there something wrong with me? i want to last longer and have a more pleasure..at the same time.. i want to give her the pleasure... cause its kinda embarrass for me..
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oooic.. thanks a lot! i will do that next time! well i got another question... when i had sex with this grl... i would do oral sex and manuel sex on her for a long time... but when it was time for intercourse.. i tend to ejaculate about less then 2 mins once i enter her vagina.. it happen all the time...is there something wrong with me? i want to last longer and have a more pleasure..at the same time.. i want to give her the pleasure... cause its kinda embarrass for me..
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Well, for giving her pleasure the manual sex and oral sex may actually do more for her than intercourse does. Many women are more pleasured by and more responsive to sexual play that goes beyond intercourse alone...as there are more nerve endings for this in the clitoris and labia rather than the vagina. So for pleasuring her, just communicate with her and see what she likes...experiment and move on from there.

As for "lasting longer" you already have a thread where this is addressed by several of the forum's volunteers. They are greatly more knowledgable than I, so I would refer you to the advice they gave you on this issue.

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ooook thanks a lot! i got a little bit more confidents now!
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