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Lucy23
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Well when me and my boyfriend have sex, we would first start off with the kissing and sometimes oral sex and I'll get aroused but when we start having sex I don't have any feeling or pleasure what so ever. The only pleasure that I get sometimes is when I get on top without him inside and grinding on top. I think that's weird but that's the only pleasure I get besides the oral. And I know it's not him, it's all me.
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BiLLaBaBy017
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It's all in your head sweetie. Women need more than just the intercourse itself. Experiment a little bit more with your partner and by yourself. Find out what feels good for you and then let your partner know so he can do it with you. Intercourse is all mental, there has to be something else involved during intercourse like clitoral stimulation or what have you.
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Karybu
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In addition to what Billababy posted, you might find the following articles useful:

Sexual Response and Orgasm
Ten of the Best Things You Can Do For Your Sexual Self (at any age)
Yield For Pleasure (or, why chilling out with intercourse can improve your sex life)


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