This is not an impending problem, but I'd like to get some input if I could =).
My boyfriend and I have a healthy, happy relationship. We are careful with each other's feelings. This is the second time we have dated one another exclusively for a duration of multiple months. This time around, we are exploring our sexuality. We have had vaginal intercourse once and have engaged in manual vaginal sex multiple times.
I am very passive and quite shy when it comes to engaging in sexual activity. My boyfriend is also quite passive, and I want him to take lead! I want him to be more aggressive, not in a scary way, but I want him to just try things, just go for it. I trust him. He is the first guy I've ever done anything sexual with who didn't try to or actually force me into anything.
On top of that, he also has about zero experience with touching girls/ having sex. Granted, my experience is pretty minimal as well, but I have never encountered a guy who seems harmlessly clueless about where to touch/ how to touch/ when to touch.
This, I think, requires me to speak up and be quite direct about what feels good or what I suggest he could try-- I know, but I don't want to!! Awww I'm too sexually shy for this haha. It's an awkward combination- Him not knowing what exactly to do, and me not exactly wanting to speak up about it.
I have directed him toward this website, thinking maybe it could help. But I think experience is the best teacher, especially for my boyfriend the way he learns.
I really want my boyfriend to initiate things more!
If anyone has any comments/ suggestions, I would like to hear from you. Thanks!!
but in the end is right
i hope you had the
time of your life"