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Well this is probally a really dumb question but i will ask it anyway..How do u tell if he is a bad kisser and how do u tell if he thinks if you are a good kisser??I guess i really dont know what a bad kisser is.. Is there anyway that you can tell me???
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This is interesting. What do people think is a good kiss? Do people like it when you suck on lips? Do people like lots of tongue?
I'll start the ball rolling....I like a lot of gentle lip-work but tongue doesn't do anything for me. Sucking on each other's lips is great and just.. generally working the lips.
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hmm.. Things I like about kissing. Tongue definitely has it's place, especially when things get heavy. The worst thing though is when you get too hot and heavy and whoever you're kissing stops paying close attention to kissing and ends up licking your face. No good!
My boyfriend and I always French kiss, stop, and add a little smooch at the end. We've done it forever and now I can't finish a kiss without a little smooch. It just feels incomplete.
I like to be bitten so my boyfriend will bite my lip and pull on it lightly. Recently, I've started doing the same to him.
That's all for my rambling, I think.
When it comes to kissing (and most things in general), it all comes down to what YOU like, cherry. You'll work out what you like and don't like with experience.
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I actually am one of the weirdos who likes the licking of the face thing. The only thing I don't like about it is the after effect of your face being wet, but the general present sensation is always fun for me.
Personally, I'm a tongue person. Really close makeout sessions where it's almost like you both have the same mouth is a turn on for me.
Lip sucking is always fun too.
I've only actually kissed two guys in my life, one being a total mistake and tons from my boyfriend of almost a year now. But I've never recieved any complaints.
It's a personal thing though. Different people like different things. I don't know a whole lotta people who are into the whole faces-really-smushed-together thing besides me and a few other boys.
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a good kiss starts off slow and your lips just kind of mesmerize eachother's. Your lips will move with your partners and you'll just fall into it. Thats a good kiss
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Chances are, if you don't like the way he kisses, he probably doesn't realize. As you can see from the other replies, everyone likes something different. Perhaps you could mention to him that you really like "more tongue" or "softer kisses" or whatever it is that you like.
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i like some tongue, but not so much that its down my throat, i like slow,smooth kisses, and when my boyfriend nibbles on my bottom lip lightly,its a huge turn on. i dont like the whole licking the face thing, but i love beeing licked and sucked on the neck.
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I like little kisses in the begining then tracing eachother's lips with your own. Then opening your mouth a bit, then nibbling on the bottom lip gently tugging/sucking. Then you just start 'frenching' whatever - but not to much tongue. Then complete it with small kisses, then rub our noses agaisnt eachother. Lol.. Sounds lame but it's totally fun.
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