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PuNkYeGg
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Ok, recently one of my guy friends bought me a present (this guy being the one i really like, as more than a friend) anyway, i didnt know how to repay him so i said id give him a kiss. lol. I dont have to but i really wanna pull him, or erm pash? As some ppl call it, sorry if its not lol. Anyways i was just wondering what would be the right situation, cause i cant really just go up to him ya know. Im not asking for tips or anything but i just dont know how exactly to approach it, whether to make it a big deal or not, if that makes sence. Thanks xxx
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well thats pretty simple. you have to decide when is the right moment for you. Dont let him know your going for it. but in the middle of yalls conversation. sitting down or standing up. make your move slowy while talking to him. get a bit closer not letting him know what your up. too when its gets kinda quiet wich im sure it will approach him slowy and kiss him slow back away. 6 inches away. look at him and go for the big wet one. =) ~.~
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12345
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i was just wondering, how do i know if i am kissing right or how to kiss. DOes it just come naturally or what? PLease tell me, i need to know soon!!
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dailicious
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There is no "way" to kiss. It comes with practice for some, a first time may be a bit awkward, but you might be surprised how naturally it comes.

Just don't worry about it or dwell over it or stress out about not doing it "right" because there really is no right way, everyone does things slightly differently and becomes comfortable with kissing in different ways, that become natural and the correct way for them. So take your time and relax, that's what kissing is supposed to be about, not stress.


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icygirl88
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I just want to add, that a good kiss doesn't need tongue necessarily. My boyfriend and I (2 months this friday!) kiss all the time but mostly without tongue, just because it's more comfortable that way. It still feels amazing and is much easier than frenching.

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I agree w/ icygirl88 ...

I'm tongue-tied. I can do it (french kissing, that is), but it's uncomfortable sometimes. It just doesn't stretch that far! Haven't had any complaints yet


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PuNkYeGg
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Just Wondering....Ermm....If your 'French kissing' as in, using tounges, do both people have to use tounges or is it just ment to be one?
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Usually, I think, both tongues will be involved in some way, but again, it's all about finding what's comfortable and experimenting with what you like.
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PunchyFDL
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quote:
Originally posted by 12345:
i was just wondering, how do i know if i am kissing right or how to kiss. DOes it just come naturally or what? PLease tell me, i need to know soon!!

with me i just copied how the girls kissing me were doing it. but then when a truly special one comes along, you know it and you do it your own way. its natural though and it is like something youll never have felt before.


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