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KrissyJohnson
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Am i normal becouse i have funny feelings about sex?
A friend and i have been talking alot obout sex.
I told him i have always wanted to be taken over the knee and spanked till my butt was nice and red.
Then i wanted to be tried up face down and done up the butt.

He thought i was crazy but he agree and he filled a void in my life.
I am still a virgin
I never had normal intercouse
Am i normal?
Do other females want analsex too?


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ANGIE1985
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Hi,
Your not alone on trying anal. Alot of females have anal.
If its something that you and your partner enjoy then do it.
The spanking part sounds like it may hurt.
I would say if your going to spank for a long time to use a CODE word so he knows when to stop.

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KrissyJohnson
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thank you for filling me in. I trust my partner well enough that i dont need no code word.
besides its the pain and the heat of his hand i enjoy.
I also enjoy " his" lube

[This message has been edited by KrissyJohnson (edited 06-08-2005).]


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KittenGoddess
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quote:
Originally posted by KrissyJohnson:
I trust my partner well enough that i dont need no code word.

Wrong...wrong wrong wrong. Having a safe-word has nothing to do with trust. Really it doesn't. It has to do with safety. Anyone active in any type of bondage activities should be taking the proper precuations when participating in those activities. I'd suggest that if you plan to continue activities like bondage and spanking it would be a good idea for yourself and your partner to do some research into the practices and safety precautions necessary with these activities.

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KrissyJohnson
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I trust him and we have talk about my body he understands that sometimes i need to spanked.
i need that part in my life
maybe cause i want it so bad is becouse i miss being spanked or im just kinky.

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ANGIE1985
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Im not sure how old you are or why you enjoy spankings so much. You should have a safe word.
I know when i was spanked it was always becouse of something i did wrong.
I was spanked with a belt.
I guess if you have a void in your life as you call it and your being safe and you 100% trust him then i say carry on.
Just remember to always be safe.

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ceresbaistat
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I agree with the need of a code word. No matter how much he cares about you, he can accidantally go a little too far.

As for your normality, it sounds like you're masochistic (sp?) and submissive. I think that's considered a little kinky, but to me at least it sounds pretty normal/common.


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XoXoKellyBellyXoXo
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it's completly normal. Im a virgin, and i have fantises like that too. I think its good and very brave to talkto your partne about it. Hopefully all your dreams come true, haha.
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Heather
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Annabanna/ANGIE1985/KrissyJohnson:

Both your IP address (next time you want to play games, don't do it all from the same computer and in the same syntax, eh?) and ALL of your usernames have been banned.

The guidelines at Scarleteen make very clear that we do not permit any sort of fraud here, and/or purposeful misinformation and storytelling (apparently for the sake of your own amusement), AND that multiple usernames for a single person are not okay.

Given the level of such you have performed here, if you return to the boards again with any new handle you'll be reported to your ISP and your email accounts for harassment, guy. In a word, don't come back.

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