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BigGShawty90
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when you first have anal sex, if you dont use lubricant, then will it hurt really badly. and if you dont use it then can u get cuts or harm yourself to the point to where your body is in *trouble* like there is something wrong with it?
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Ashy
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Hi there,
It's true that if you don't use lube for anal penetration, it's likely that it'll be painful. That can also mean that the anal tissue can be abraded or torn, which can make you more suceptible to infection, as well as being painful. I hope this answers your question!

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dotta
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or feel like you have to take a poop....kinda awkward...in my opinion it's over rated
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does a condom have lubricant on it? and if it does is it enough for anal sex?
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Heather
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Lubricated condoms do, but NOT enough for pleasurable anal penetration.

FYI? If you ask because you feel funny asking your partner to use lube for your comfort and safety, then that's a Big Neon Sign that should tell you this is NOT the partner to be engaging in anal sex with (or any kind, for that matter).


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glitter695
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A big red flag goes up for me if you don't know if a condom has lubricate on it or not. So I am just going to throw this in here for the hell of it Ready or NOT?

And yes, a condom does have lube on it but you can also get condoms that don't have any on them as well.

Also check this out! Advice: ANAL SEX

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