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Ok see heres the deal.

Im really craving sex right now. Im very horney.

I have only been with 2 guys. And the last time I was with them was a while ago.

Im not the type for a one night stand. And Im not the type to masterbate, so what could I do.

Any advice would be appreciated cuz its driving me nuts. And its even sad when my friends know Im sexually frusturated!!

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Ah yes, the joys of being a teenager. It is normal to have these sexual urges and I am glad you are not one to have a one night stand. And if you are not one to masturbate its very hard to ease the urges sexually. So I suggest to try and occupy your mind with something else you enjoy so you don't think about it. Ultimately if you did want to ease these urges, the only way is sexually so maybe you should look for a good-hearted boyfriend
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Ultimately if you did want to ease these urges, the only way is sexually

Which can as easily be solo as with a partner .

Masturbation isn't something that only a special "type" of person does; it's something that most human beings on the planet do.

Even if you're not okay with the idea of masturbation, getting into a relationship with another person just as a way of meeting your sexual needs tends not to be a good idea - you're really just using another human being as a tool to masturbate with!

Any involvement with another person, casual or not, means having to think about their needs and wishes as well. So unless there's someone in particular you want to be involved with, you might want to see if you can re-consider your views about masturbation.

(Hint: check out Is Masturbation Okay? (Yep) and Sexual Response and Orgasm: A User's Guide).

If you don't feel comfortable with that, then, as kylie's pointed out, your only option is to try to focus your energies elsewhere and occupy yourself with other things.

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Masturbation does not appear to be a uniquely human endeavor... some of the other mammals seem to have discovered the benefits as well…
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If you are having really unbearable urges it can be quite frustrating, but if you can give masturbation another thought, if not then try and get out in the company of decent lads and start a nice relationship where your problem will be sorted. You might not have to wait long before your problems are sorted so just think of great it will be when things eventually happen


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