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sparky89
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i havent had sex befire but i hav been fingered and i hav noticed dat im tight me n my bf hav been thinkin obut sex but im 2 scared cuz i think im 2 tight
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Heather
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PLEASE use proper English when posting, as mentioned clearly in the user agreement.

Vaginal "tightness" isn't something static, genetic, or about age when you're not pre-pubescent. It tends to be about sexual arousal, more than anything else, most of the time.

So, if you're having any sort f sex when you're unaroused, nervous, scared, feeling unprepared or insecure, then tightness is likely to occur.

The answer? Don't engage in penetrative activities -- like manual sex with penetration or vaginal intercourse -- until you're relaxed, prepared, and feeling very aroused, preferably well after extensive sexual activities which do not involve penetration and which offer you pleasure and comfort. Use latex-safe lubricant as needed when you're aroused, but not feeling lubricated enough for comofrt. Communicate with your partner so he knows how to pace himself.


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IAskQuestions
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Just wondering before I post anything, do these older posts get picked up by users if a reply is made?
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Heather
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From ten years ago? Not even remotely likely, no.

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OK, thanks for the response.
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