I have been with my boyfriend for a mere 3 1/2 months. I know that sounds like such a short time, but I'd like to think that it's the quality of time you've spent with someone, not the quantity.
The bond that we share with one another is so amazing, and we are so open and honest with one another, and can share literally anything with each other.
For each of us, it's been our first real relationship, and we both plan on it being a long relationship (we don't go to high school together, but we are going to college at the same University).
We've decided after much talking that we may be ready for sex. We've done everything leading up to sex and we wanted to wait until we were absolutely ready, no doubts in our mind. I know 100% that this is the individual to whom I want to have sex with for the first time, and so does he.
My issue here is my parents. They would flip out if they knew I was going to have sex. If it were up to them, I'd never have sex. My mom once stated that she never wanted me to do it, unless I was well into a marriage & wanted to have children (which I don't agree with). My mom doesn't like the fact that my boyfriend & I are going to be home alone and is weary whenever that is the case -- she says she doesn't "trust him" because both mine and his "raging hormones" might get the best of us.
We both mutually decided that we want to have sex (and we actually bought condoms today & he is planning on bringing them to my house tomorrow) and I want to with this guy. However, I'm worried that I will feel guilty simply because of my mother's personal beliefs. I think I'd fear that I'd be breaking her trust.
What should I do?
What if my mom found out?
Thanks for any help, it's much appreciated.