ill try to make this short as possible but i've been having sex for a year now and i've been with 5 different guys and every time i have sex its really painful.. the last time i had intercourse a few weeks ago it felt like he was literally ripping me apart.. we had to take a break and then even after that i couldnt do it anymore i was almost in tears because of the pain.. and i havent been a virgin for a year.. does anyone know why this is?
Posts: 30 | From: annapolis, maryland, usa | Registered: Apr 2003
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Find an intact (uncircumcised) man! One of the reasons why you experience pain is because of the lack of skin on your partners penis. The foreskin allows for him to thrust without having to make long thrusts. The shorter the better. Plus with long thrusts he will drag your natural lubrication out which causes even more pain.
Posts: 6 | From: State College, PA, USA | Registered: May 2004
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HOLD UP HERE (and elsewhere, as I've mentioned, please).
Are you her gynecologist? Have you seen her to know she doesn't have, say, an ovarian cyst causing the pain? I'm doubting so.
Any person, of any gender, can vaginally penetrate a partner without discomfort to that partner, and with pleasure. They do not require a penis with a foreskin to do so. As well, what you're stating hereis beyond questionable. A woman can have deep penetration (and enjoy it plenty) and remain lubricated, or use as much latex-safe lubricant as she likes without pain. A woman with ANY partner can, and should, also communicate to that partner what does or doesn't feel good to her, nomatter what their equipment is.
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