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jpeach960
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I have had sex once before and my boyfriend has had sex a couple of times. We have not have sex with eachother yet. He tried to insert his penis into my vagina but it didint go in, it didint hurt but it just didint go in. What does this mean and how can i prevent this?

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lucylu458
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maybe you werent aroused or aroused enough. usually, when a woman is aroused, their vagina gets more hollow and wide so the penis can go in. did that help?


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jpeach960
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yes it helped, thank you very much, i did want to have sex, it was just that i have am nervous and you cant help being nervous ya know? but after talking about it with my boyfriend, it has helped, thank you again
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killer_raincoat
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you might also want to consider a lubricant like KY jelly, or astroglide.

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KittenGoddess
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Another consideration might be the positioning of your body and his. I know it seems really simple to 'insert Tab A into Slot B', but it tends to be alot easier if you pay attention to how things are lined up.

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