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i have a quick question, thanks so much for your time and effort...
my boyfriend and I do not use condoms and dental dams when we perform oral sex on eachother. we have both had std tests and HIV tests and we are a-ok. but my question is (this might be stupid, but i am nervous and would rather be safe then sorry) can i become pregant if he or i have ejactulate or "pre-come" on our hands (even if its just a little) and he performs manual sex on me (fingering.)
i hope that wasnt too longwinded. thanks
p.s. we always use condoms for intercourse

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According to my understanding, there is a small chance of pregnancy in that case as there is indeed some sperm in precum (and obviously in ejaculate), and sperm can last for 20 minutes outside of the body. I think just to be safe you should be using condoms during manual sex as well as intercourse.


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Hi there --

Yes, you do indeed have a pregnancy risk. Here's more information; click the Manual Sex section:

What's The Risk? - Five Easy Pregnancy Risk Assessment Flow Charts

Hope this helps,

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This is a question lots of girls have but are too shy to ask. Yes you can, the chance is smaller than say intercourse but it could still happen. Hey that might explain the Virgin Mary
Also you should always use condoms and dental dams, you never know what your partner is up to when you are not around it is not about trust it is about protection

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