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blondie17
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Well i've recently been engaging in anal as well as vaginal sex and i really enjoy both. The last time we had anal he asked me if i wanted to use a vibrator to help orgasm because we both think if i did it would just be more fun! Doesn't mean i have to, but we kinda wanna try sumthin new. I was just curious... is it safe and ok for me to want to be pentrated in both at once? one w/ a vibrator and w/ his penis...Btw, thx again or your advice on anal sex! you really helped me!

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As a practical note, if you want to use a vibrator to help you reach orgasm, it's more likely to be effective if you use it on your clitoris rather than in your vagina.

Most women can't orgasm from penetration alone, whether that's vaginal or anal penetration. So adding clitoral stimulation is likely to be more effective than just adding more penetration.

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is it safe and ok for me to want to be pentrated in both at once?

Hey, it's OK for you to want whatever you want . However, when it comes to turning wants into action, you need to be realistic and sensible.

You may find that it's possible for you to comfortably have a penis in your anus and an object in your vagina at the same time - or you may not.

If it's comfortable, then no worries. But if it's uncomfortable, let alone if it hurts, then you need to use common sense and stop doing it.

In addition, you need to take care that nothing gets transferred from your anus to your vagina, as that's a quick way to get a nasty bacterial infection.


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blondie17
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thx.... well we did try and small vibrator on the outside and it was... very good hehe i was just curious cuz just when im close to having an orgasm i fell like i really want something there ya kno... and i felt like that last time we had anal sex w/ the external vibrator. i just wanted to make sure its physically possible to do both...

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I just wanted to note that before you put any kind of toy in your anus, you should make sure that your toy itself is safe for anal play. Make sure that the toy is smooth and has some kind of flared base so that there isn't a chance of it getting lodged in there.

Also, make sure you know how to thoroughly clean your toy after the anal play - introducing bacteria from your anus to your vagina could cause infection. A super way to keep the toy clean is to just put a condom on it.


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It is possible to have vaginal and anal penetration at the same time depending on the size of the items or body parts. Finding the right rythym for movement is also important.

Just a note about toys. Dildos are non-vibrating toys that are inserted in the vagina or anus. Dildos that are made specifically for anal play should have a flared base, to prevent the toy from being lost. Vibrators is a term for any toy that vibrates. They come in all shapes & sizes and some can be used for penetration as well.

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i wasn't planning on using a dildo for anal sex... I was thinking something like for my vagina while I was having anal sex. But thank you for the advice.

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