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My girl and Iís first time (penis vaginal intercourse) and I was wonder when would we stopped be considered virgins? Is it as soon as I get the head in? After I get all of it in? After the first full stroke or when one of us (probably me) finally climaxes? It not that this is a big deal to know, but since both of use have been doing a lot of reading to prepare and nothing has really discussed this. I hope this isnít another one of those decide for yourself type of things.
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There have been loads and loads of virginity topics, so have a look at some other links. They basically say the same thing - virginity cannot really be defined because everyone has a different idea of what it is.

Want more links? Click on search at the top of the page and type in virginity

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I hope this isnít another one of those decide for yourself type of things.

'Fraid so . Many people don't even think that penis-vagina intercourse is the only way of "losing your virginity".

Check out Magical Cups & Bloody Brides for a guide to this subject.

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There's definitely no right or wrong definition. My opinion is that you're no longer a virgin when there's penetration (preferably consentual sex).

My view also is that failing to climax is a low toolbar to determine virginity. If the guys climaxes and the gal doesn't then she's a virgin and he isn't. Also, many people don't necessary climax the first time.

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