i was just wondering how lesbian have sex
However they want .
I'm not sure what's so puzzling here. There are lots of ways of having sex that don't involve a penis (and heterosexual couples can do them too, for that matter) .
they say that its better and having sex with guys...
I don't think there's any law of nature that "all women are better in bed" or "all men are better in bed" or whatever.
However, I do have some friends who argue that GLBT folk often have an advantage in that there's no "default assumption" that sex will automatically fall into a pattern of "foreplay" followed by penis-in-vagina intercourse, and therefore they have to communicate and decide what they'd both actually like (which tends to be the key to better sex).
Of course, there's no reason why heterosexual couples who can communicate shouldn't have just as much fun .
and im No lesbian...i was just wondering
To quote Miz Scarlet:
Do recall that many of us here aren't heterosexual, and that this sort of gay-disclaimer is more than a little offensive. No one cares what your orientation is here, so there is no need to defend it.
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