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rest0om22
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hi...i was just wondering how lesbian have sex.....they say that its better and having sex with guys...is that true???...and im No lesbian...i was just wondering
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AlwaysWorried
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Well, they can do manual and oral sex.

Why do you keep repeating that you aren't a lesbian? The whole point of this site is to find out things, not judge other people, so if you were then nothing would be any different.

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logic_grrl
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i was just wondering how lesbian have sex

However they want .

I'm not sure what's so puzzling here. There are lots of ways of having sex that don't involve a penis (and heterosexual couples can do them too, for that matter) .

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they say that its better and having sex with guys...

I don't think there's any law of nature that "all women are better in bed" or "all men are better in bed" or whatever.

However, I do have some friends who argue that GLBT folk often have an advantage in that there's no "default assumption" that sex will automatically fall into a pattern of "foreplay" followed by penis-in-vagina intercourse, and therefore they have to communicate and decide what they'd both actually like (which tends to be the key to better sex).

Of course, there's no reason why heterosexual couples who can communicate shouldn't have just as much fun .

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and im No lesbian...i was just wondering

To quote Miz Scarlet:

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Do recall that many of us here aren't heterosexual, and that this sort of gay-disclaimer is more than a little offensive. No one cares what your orientation is here, so there is no need to defend it.

You might find these links helpful:

http://www.scarleteen.com/sexuality/advice.html
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum2/HTML/001622.html
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Archives/Archive-000001/HTML/20000905-6-000494.html
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum15/HTML/000142.html


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Whether you a les or not, doesn't really matter. Even if u were, you must not be comfortable with urself if you feel you have to keep saying ur weren't. Everybody wasn't put on this earth to be hetero so if ur not,don't really be ashamed.

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I jus wanted to say that I know a lesbian couple very, very well and I've bugged them with LOTS of stupid and silly questions. They have sex in TONS of ways. But I think the neatest thing they do is stick to the things that they like the most. Like, i admit that i thought that all they did was "experement" all the time. When i got to know them, they were like "duh, we have favorite ways just like everyone else silly girl" So, yeah just keep that in mind
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