Um...hey. I masturbate on a regular basis...since I guess it's just a good way for me to relax and not think about things that are bothering me and so forth. But...I still feel weird doing it. Since I guess it always seemed to be that guys masturbated, girls didn't, cuz girls never talked about it. So...I wonder since I don't feel I can necessarily be open about my sexual feelings, I'm never really comfortable w/ them. I mean...I'm comfortable sort of while I'm doing it, but when I think back on it, I feel dirty, like I did something I shouldn't be doing. And I'm afraid I'm gonna be found out eventually. Does this sound odd?
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Hi. :-) I am a girl also, and I masturbate occasionally. I've told one of my friends about it and she seems okay with it. I know it's not as talked about, but I think it should be. It's not a dirty thing, it's never been a dirty thing. In fact, it's kinda of a good thing. Wouldn't any parent rather their child masturbate than have sex? Masturbation is the safest sex you can ever have! Also, once you find a guy (if you haven't already) that you'd like to experiment with, you'll be able to tell him exactly how you like to be pleasured because you've done it before to yourself. Have fun! :-)
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