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gem05
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How do you give a hand job? Can a guy orgasm if he didn't ejaculate?? Please help

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glitter695
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You did read your rules and regulations, now didnt you?!!!! :GASP: I dont think you did!!! Maybe you should go back and read them. We cannot give advice on *how to give* anything sexual. Sucks? No, You know why? Because, talking to your partner is the best thing, in a relationship. Yes, if you want to learn, you have to talk it out. See what he likes.

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gem05
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Sorry! I forgot about that. Won't happen again. I have asked my boyfriend and he's scared to tell me because he doesn't want to ejaculate.
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Milke
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The best person to ask advice on hand jobs is the person who's going to be receiving your favours.
Guys can orgasm without ejaculating, but generally, one comes with the other.

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BladeRunner
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Nope. A guy can't have an orgasm without ejaculating...
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alaska
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Sorry to correct you, BladeRunner.

From our article on sexual response:

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Orgasm is a peak of sexual excitement which begins during and follows the plateau phase. Male orgasm involves involuntary contractions of the prostate gland, vas deferens and seminal vesicles which usually (but not always!) cause the ejaculation of semen.

In some tantric sex traditions, it is a desired goal for men to experience orgams seperated from ejaculation. And it is indeed possible.

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