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jeff smith
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My girlfriend is really tight and everytime we try and have sex it is too painful for her,(she is a virgin by the way). how can we sort this out?
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LilBlueSmurf
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First of all, I have to ask that you and your gf both check out our readiness checklist here ...

Secondly, check out the rest of the boards for more info on this stuff. You can use our wonderful "search" fuction in the top right hand corner of your screen. Type in "first time" and i'm sure you'll come up w/ thousands of them. They're lots of them.

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SlowCookie
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Hey Jeff, please read Sexual Response and Orgasm: A Users Guide and the Readiness Checklist that Smurfie has already provided. Those articles should help you out plenty. Good luck. Remember that communication, condoms, and lube are your best friends.
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alaska
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And while we're here recomemnding reading material, I'd like to add

"First Intercourse 101"

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Caro
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Mahatma Gandhi


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justagirl04
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Be really gentle with her... and be understanding of her needs. Oh, and use PLENTY of lubricant (try Astroglide).

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When all else fails... look up!!!


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