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I have a question that I hope someone out there can help me with. I am on Paxil and Buspar together and have been unable to achieve an orgasm. My husband and I have a satisfiying love life, so what is happening to me??? I want to stop taking the pills to see if that is the problem, but I can not. If someone out there has expeirenced this before, please let me know what you did so maybe I can get back to the way things were. Thank you.
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I am neither a pharmacist nor a physician but antideppressants are known to occasionally interfere this way. However, the most common side effect is loss of libido, not ability to orgasm.

You should discuss this with your physician. Another prescription medication plan may be able to control anxiety and depression without these side effects. I tried 5 different combinations before I found the one right for my individual body chemistry. And my med combination might not work with your body chemistry. With psychotropic medication, it's common to do medically supervised experimentation.

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Bobolink is right. You should discuss this with your physician. I found that when I was on Prozac I wasn't able to bring myself to orgasm. Because of various other side-effects from Prozac, my doctor put me on different meds. Needless to say, I am happier now .

I would visit your physician and tell him of your problem and with his supervision, maybe you can experiment with differnt medications to see what helps your depression and anxiety but doesn't interfere directly with your sex life. Good luck .

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Don't stop taking the pills. You'll get VERY dizzy.

I take 30 mg of paxil each day, and my sex drive is at an all time low. Talk to your doctor about it. For me it's not too big of a problem as I don't have a partner. I'm just waiting until I get off the meds. Eventually, that will happen.

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my ex girlfriend started taking paxil while we were dating. at first she lost her libido, but it leveled off, then she had the complete opposite reaction, where she was horny all the time. but these types of medication have different effects on people.

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Whatever you do, don't stop taking medication without discussing it with your doctor. I made that mistake and it was sooooo bad. I used to take Zoloft for depression and I had the same libido but I couldn't orgasm. And yeah, it really really sucked. But it's so not worth sacrificing your mental health. There might be a different class of medications that you could switch to which wouldn't have that side effect which is very common with SSRIs(Selective Seratonin Reuptake Inhibitors) such as Zoloft, Paxil, and Prozac. My psychiatrist switched me to Wellbutrin and I'm really happy with it and having orgasms again So don't be embarassed to say anything about it. Your doctor has definitely heard of this before and will not think that you are being silly.

Alternatively, if there is no possibility of switching to another drug, all hope is not lost. You may find that you just need to do things differently than before. It takes some experimentation, but you might be able to have orgasms again. It might just be a matter of needing more intense stimulation, or for a longer period of time. Also keep in mind that although they are nice, orgasms are not essential for wonderful sex.

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