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hornygrl
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it has been a while since I last posted here.

but I have new bf and he's quite average.
I mean I don't like big sizes or small ones but his is just right.

he's around 5 inches long and his girth is pretty good.
Sounds like all I'm hearing from my girl friends are that their guys keep on saying they got like 8-9 inches big, which I don't think is true for MOST men, and which they assume they're lying.

Would some of you agree 5 inches is right for most of us? I can't imagine having 9 inches because it must hurt.

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The vagina is *elastic.*

In other words, it stretches and contracts to fit what is in it, big, small or anything in between.

And too, please bear in mind that saying something about someone's body is 'right" for someone else is not only fairly demeaning to the person who owns that body, it also isn't accurate. ASnd for plenty of women who aren't interested in men or penises at all, NO size is "right."

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sorry !

I was just wondering that we should have a vote on sizes. I thought a lot of women care about size.

I just like to know what you think about small, average or above average ?

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No, I don't think we should. And no, you may not.

If we did, we could say, have a vote on what men think about fat women and skinny women. Or about what any of us think about rich people or poor people. Or say, what we all think about people who are blond, versus people who are brunette.

That sort of thing is NOT okay here, which was the point I was making.

It is demeaning, it is insulting to all, and it says very clearly that you think someone else's body or person has a certain value based on how *you* feel about it. And it doesn't.

If you feel it does, that's really your problem, but it isn't something I am going to suppoirt here as it stands very counter to helping people get comfortable and accepting of their bodies and selves.

So, in a word, no.

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thanks scarlet and I deeply apologize.

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Strange, all my friends who have boyfriends claim they have incredibly large penises too Five inches is just fine, and so is bigger, or smaller. And I think it's really cool how much the vagina can adapt to fit just about anyone's penis -- should its owner want it to.
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Gee.

I've never measured my boyfriend's penis before.

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Hmmm...last time I heard a statistic on this, it was that Canadian men average at about 7 inches (erect) and Americans average at about 6. Food fer thought. (Heh...I can be objective...I'm one of those people who really doesn't care how big a guy's penis is.)

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Laughs, I doubt that Canadian penii average a whole inch larger than American ones... In anyway, have you seen our recent thread on penis size?http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/000655.html

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Correction:

Canadian penii average 2.54 cm longer than American penii. And if you believe that, I have some shares in an Indonesian gold mine that I have been using to paper my bathroom walls that I would like to sell.

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Milke
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*sigh*
You know, even if 'penii' is the correct plural, I think I'd rather say 'penises'. Penii just sounds too much like a certain type of pasta.

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Milke, have you recently had trouble ordering or buying Penne?

I quite like penii, even though this isn't even the correct plural, according to the merriam-webster, even though I think it would have to be, according to my little knowledge of Latin...

The dictionary offers:

pe·nes /'pE-(")nEz/; or pe·nis·es as alternatives, and come on, Milke "penii" is simply cuter, don't you think?
Penes looka WAY more like Penne!


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You know I never measured my boyfriend either, you know why? Because I dont care. Really I dont, I am happy with what he has. Im not complaining, hes perfect, and the last thing that is on our minds is how big is penis is. Ya, he does complain a little here and there, but all guys do.

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Alaska, I saw penis-shaped pasta once, and they're sort of the image I get here. 'Penii' is cuter than 'penises,' but too giggle-inducing for someone who'll have to explain that giggle to a perplexed other-person-in-room.

BTW, on the topic of food, a local department store had Milka chocolate bears and chickens. That on top of various KinderEgg things. Your culture is spreading, but at least the confectionary's good!


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Penis shaped pasta?

Woah...that'd be an interesting experience...

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you're both wrong!!! the plural for "penis" is penes (pronounced PEE-neez).

as for the penis pasta, you can buy it at Urban Outfitters.

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Oh yes, I've seen that penis shaped pasta. Very odd. What would happen if you serve that on a date? *lol*

And gumdrop, come on, we know that...but it's "penes" is soooo boooring .

And Milke: Survival of the fittest, the best chocolate is unstoppable *lol*.
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i definatly agree that penii sounds (and looks, when reading off a post) the best, even if it isn't correct!

i went to the Urban Outfitters website, but found there was a great lack of penis-shaped pasta!

oh well, i guess i'll have to settle for the boring stuff my mom serves me!


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Juice, you live in Toronto... go to the Condom Shack. It's at Osgoode St, near the MuchMusic building thingy. They have the penis pasta there.

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Saw oodles of penis-shaped pasta (and lollipops and what-have-you, along with matching breast-shaped food items) in the tourist shops along the San Francisco waterfront over Spring Break. Back here in Missouri they only sell it in the sex shops, though.

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I went downtown to a leadership conference for my school w/ a few friends ... It was really boring so we skipped it to go to the Condom Shack. That was awsome!! I love that place. I really want to go back. I highly suggest that you pop in there Juice, if you haven't already
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hey, thanx guys! i shall plan a field trip with my friends. they will be thrilled...
actually, probably not.

they're never interested in going to new/different places... i might have to go solo... sniff, sniff.


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I've seen penis pasta. I've seen boobie pasta too.

Has anyone seen penis gummies? I have

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i find it somwhat strange that a question about the size of average **penii** can turn so quikly to a disscussion about **interestingly** shaped pasta

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quote:
Originally posted by **hippi_chik**:
i find it somwhat strange that a question about the size of average **penii** can turn so quikly to a disscussion about **interestingly** shaped pasta

If you think THAT'S bizarre, take a look at this... http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum2/HTML/000642.html

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Ooh penis shaped pasta. My mum's friend is addicted.

And it just shows that food is more important than sex.


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Yeah, I've seen penis and boobie pasta and penis gummies and chocolate. We humans sure eat some weird stuff... gingerbread men, animal crackers, penis pasta... Reminds me of a Star Trek episode, where there's a cake of Data... "sometimes a cigar is just a cigar". Okay, I'm a nerd.

Also, I think "penes" sounds too much like "peonies". Can you imagine how embarrassing it's going to be next time I talk about my garden?


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