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Allright once again I think a little background info is in order. It seems like every time my bf and I have sex, or sometimes just through masturbating - I get a small red line on my labia like a small thin cut or tear. sometimes I get one at the very bottem of my inner lips. My bf already said I was smaller than usual, and we use lubricant every time, even w/ extensive foreplay it's still near impossible for pentration w/out pain. And then after sex I'm completley sore to the point that the pain pulses inside. This is not normal, right? It's always been like this since I can remember... any advice?
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It is very possible that you might have gotten cut during manual sex (ie fingering). One way you can avoid this would be to use latex gloves and lubricant.

Yes hon, it is not normal for you to be in so much pain after sex and you might want to get yourself checked out by a gyne before having sex again.

It is fairly normal to be sore after extensive sex but it sounds like you are going through quite abit of pain here. So get yourself to the gyne asap for a consultation.

And in regards to being smaller than usual, remind him that a baby can be delivered through the vagina so you can only be so small.

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And just as a side note - if you have trouble with penetration, it might also be possible that you simply have a very resistant hymen, so have yourself checked out by a doc, hon, just to see what's up.

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