I was making out with my girlfriend and i started to feel her bare breasts. It was the first time I ever did it so I was a bit nervous. Anyway, her nipples felt hard. I wasn't expecting that. I thought they would be soft. Do girls get hard nipples like guys get an erection when they're turned on? Or did I do something wrong? I know everyone is different, but is there a certain way that you're supposed to feel a girls breasts that they'll enjoy?
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Some girls' nipples do get harder and firmer (and sometimes even darker in color) when they're aroused. It is kinda like when guys get erections; as far as I know, it's the same basic principle (spongy erectile tissue with increased blood flow = hardness).
As for a "certain way you're supposed to feel a girl's breasts," we're all quite different. Basically, I'd advise you ask her about it while you're with her, things like, "Do you like this?" or "Does that feel good?"
Communication's going to be your best relationship tool, in bed and out of it.
But eh, not all girl's do that. I'll say that at first my nipples get hard for a few minutes but then they get soft. So don't freak out if the next girl's nipples don't. Everyone's different. And listen to your girl's noises, body, and what she actually says. Body language says a lot. Anyways, good luck!
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