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shyguy
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I am a teen and I wanted to know if there is any other kind of method for a guy to get an orgasm besides jerkin (sorry if that is inapropriate i cant think of another word)
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Heather
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Understand that when it all comes down to it, an orgasm doesn't come from your genitals, or from what you do to them. An orgasm happens in your brain. Because of that -- and because we are all so different -- there are nearly infiniate things that might bring a person to orgasm, some which I am sure even we may not have heard of before.

Only you can find out what makes you feel good, and finding out is where the real joy of it happens. Sex is about process, not product.


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shyguy
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but is there any other things i can do to help get an orgazm besides the old hand?

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Heather
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You didn't hear a word I just said.

One: I am not you. I do not know your life experience, who you are, your social conditioning, what turns you on and off, the level of your physical sensation in parts of your body, and so forth.

Two: Because I neither know those things nor experience tham AS you, I couldn't possibly know what else feels good to you. Only YOU can.

Check it out: you have your own body your whole life to exlpore, and a myriad of things in the world. The only person who can explore them is you. be creative, learn yourself, explore.


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negative*nancy
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If you're looking for ideas,

try http://www.jackinworld.com

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where is fancy bred? In the heart, or in the head?


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