I love having sex with my boyfriend, but sometimes when I want to orgasm faster, I fantasize about other goodlooking guys. I sometimes feel bad about it but the orgasms sometimes feel more intense when I do this, almost like the first time I reached orgasm. Do any other girls do this? I dont do it every time just sometime because it feels so good. Is this wrong?
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Yeah, everyone does it. Well everyone I know. Because as great as your boyfriend is, he's probably not a Matt Damon, and even Matt Damon could get boring. If it feels so bad, it shouldn't really be. Fantasizing is a perfectly healthy thing to do, just don't become totally obsessed about him being a different person that you forget he's your wonderful boyfriend. Another thing, you could be thinking another guy when you kiss him, but it's better than actually kissing that other guy. And another tip, think about someone way out of reach, because if you think of your cute bio partner who has a crush on you, you may start trying to live out the fantasy...
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