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Alias01
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Tonite was my very first time giving oral sex to my GF. Where i come from guys are very reserved about giving oral sex to a girl...I dont see the big deal..cause all the guys who wont give head..are the first to ask a girl for a blowjob..I think it should be give and take type of thing..you know 50/50.........I actually like eating my girl out..believe it or not..maybe because i love her so much its felt good. Now I tried the respondsible thing and put saran wrap up first..but it was getting in my way. Me and my GF dont have any diseases so I felt comfortable in doing this. I know there are a lot of guys out there who enjoy giving oral sex as well.....I think of this as a sexually mature thing. :-)

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Alias01
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Also I'm thinking of asking her that when we finally do all the way which will be soon..that we try 69...so its double the fun!!!.As always we will play it safely. :-) I'm jus kinda worried that she wont respond to it very well. I think she'd up for it even though when we joke about how others do it, she says she doesn't, but we all know that things chnage when its jus you 2 in the bedroom. Only time will tell huh??..lol
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Hanne
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Starpoet's right -- just because you aren't actually *sick* doesn't mean you might not have something you could give one another, STD-wise.

Yeah, plastic wrap is a pain in the butt for oral sex sometimes, and so are condoms. But compared to having to explain to someone that you're infected with something really icky or potentially even fatal, it's small change.

The only way to be sure you're playing safe is to use barriers. Use 'em. The only responsible way to *not* use barriers is to do the following:
1) Establish a completely monogamous relationship. No sexual contact, period, with anyone but your partner.

2) Both of you go get a complete STD screen. If they both come back completely negative, move on to #3.

3) Wait 6 months. During those 6 months, you can have sex with your monogamous partner ONLY, and you can ONLY have barrier-protected safer sex. Condoms, plastic wrap, the whole nine yards. EVERY TIME. PERIOD.

4) Both of you go get a complete STD screen again.

5) If the STD screen comes back completely negative for both of you a second time, then and only then are you actually 95% sure that neither of you have anything you could give to the other person. Bear in mind that some things (like HIV, the virus that causes AIDS), can take longer than 6 months to show up, but usually if it's going to show up, it will show up within 6 months.

6) After you've done all this, you can finally feel relatively free to toss the condoms and the plastic wrap out the window (make sure you have some other kind of birth control!!!!).

Got it? Good.

In re: sixty-nine -- it doesn't necessarily "double your pleasure." Some people find that it's way too distracting to try to perform oral sex on someone else when they're having it done to them. Some people just don't find the idea interesting or arousing.

Assuming that "things will change once you're in the bedroom" is pretty disrespectful. Your girlfriend's feelings on this issue DO matter. You can ask, but she can say no. If she agrees to try it and discovers she likes it, great. If she tries it and doesn't like it, respect that.

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wear*a*smile!
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its good that u see it as a good thing and all that, cuz girls like to be pleased too! well, anywayz, u should ALWAYS play it safe. always wear condoms, and never think that not using one "just once" will be safe. its not. a lot of things are unfair in this world, and this is one of those things. its a fact of nature, so be serious about it!
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HotGrrl99
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It's nice to know what there are guys out there who will be happy to eat us out, and not just be interested in us giving them BJs! Spread the word to your guy friends that we like it!!
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* LAUREN
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Yep...one time is all it takes!! Always always do the condoms/plastic wrap thing!! I'm glad you liked it so much

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