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DMSATX357
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My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months and we are pretty active sexually although we abstain from having intercourse. Our only real problem is that we always choose to "mess around" at inopportune times (i.e. right before curfew) or places (i.e. the car). I was just wondering if anyone had any thoughts or advice on better times and places to do things as the house is not always available.
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Alias01
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Me and my GF sometimes mess around in the park..sometimes on a park bench or behiind a tree..depending on if people are around. We also sometimes go to this really big Borders bookstore..and find a spot that is kinda hidden in this corner. You can also go to the library..we all know this is not the most crowded place in the world.

You said that you are not engaging in intercourse so if you guys are jus kissing or something like that...jus find a quiet place anywhere.


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Helpful27
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Mmmmm...that's a bit of a poser. Parks! Ya, that comes to mind. My old girlfriend and I used to mess about at nature parks. We picked the one on the outskirts of town where the trails were much less busy. The type of park you need is the heavily wooded kind with nature trails. Bring the bug repelant, though. That was the only dissadvantage, although the mosquitos aren't too bad at some times of the year.

Kudos by the way for putting off intercourse. I have learned to become a near master at foreplay due to a 3-year relationship that involved just about everything but intercourse. And believe me, foreplay is 99% of sex.


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HotGrrl99
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There are loads of places to have "fun"! Try messing around under a blanket at a park or a beach... Closets, treehouses, basements or attics work! You can mess around in movie theaters, or even under the stands at sporting events! My friend even messes around with her bf at school, in the janitors closet! You can always find a place, when 2 people are really horny!!
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Alias01
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On the contrary...you cannot also find a place when 2 people are horny. Me and my GF always have problems with people popping up when we wanna mess around. Even today we couldn't find a place in the huge Aquarium we have here.

But yea..jus be creative with the places you wanna do ya thang. And I also have become a master of 4-play do to the fact of my lack of penetration..but not for long :-)


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