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Hello there

This feels a bit like a dumb question but I've found that I get extremely aroused by watching two guys or two girls make out but not so much with a guy and girl. I mean, I'm pretty sure that I'm attracted to men but is this significant? I'm not sure what it means.

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Robin Lee
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Hi MissTK,

This doesn't have to mean anything more than you enjoying watching two guys or two girls making out and not getting much enjoyment from watching guy-girl couples. Our sexualities are, for most of us, pretty complex, and have a lot of facets.

What we enjoy watching, or fantasizing about, doesn't necessarily say anything about who we're attracted to, what we want to do sexually, or who we want to partner with.

I think you might find this article on orientation helpful in sorting some of this out for yourself.

The Rainbow Connection: Orientation for Everyone


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