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okay, so i like guys and girls, and i know im sexually attracted to both, but the sexual feelings are a little stronger towards boys. like, i think about having sex with boys, but only about kissing girls. i do look at girls breasts, and their legs too, but i have liked boys longer than ive liked girls. i liked boys since i was like, five and girls since i was 11.

cut my life into pieces, this is my last resort, suffocation no breathing, dont give a f***k if i cut my arm bleeding.

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Hey, julzy. I'm afraid we can't tell you if you are bisexual or any other orientation. Whether or not to label yourself as such is totally your decision, one we can't make for you. So do you feel like "bisexual" suits how you feel best? Do you identify most with bisexuality?

And just so you know, people who're bisexual totally don't have to be "equally" as attracted to all genders, or necessarily in the same way. For example, at this point in my life, I am usually more emotionally attracted to men, but more sexually attracted to women, and I identify as bisexual. So not everyone who identifies as bisexual has exactly the same level/type of attraction to men and women or any other gender. Does that make sense?

Here's an awesome SA article that covers this:
I'm bisexual, so why don't I feel exactly the same about men and women?

Hope it helped! [Smile]

[ 09-13-2010, 03:14 PM: Message edited by: Onionpie ]

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