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rebecccas13
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Ok, I'm terribly confused...I think I may be bi, but then again I'm not sure. I dont really want to talk to my mom about it, because she will tell my dad and then Ill have to talk to him about it and i dont know how they'll react. I'm going back to school soon, and am thinking about talking to the counsoler. But I need help. What should I do?

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eryn_smiles
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Hi Rebecca [Smile]

I think it's really common and normal to feel confused sometimes and question your sexuality. What makes you think you might be bi? What worries you about this?

You know, you don't have to tell your parents straight away and it can be hard to know how they'll react. But also, you don't have to figure out things on your own, so the school counsellor sounds like a good starting point to talk to. If you have friends you think would be understanding, you could maybe share with them too.

Bit of reading might help too..
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/im_15_and_bisexual_but_how_do_i_know_for_sure
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gaydar/q_is_for_questioning
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gaydar/the_bees_and_the_bees_a_homosexuality_and_bisexuality_primer
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gaydar/bi_the_dozen_a_bisexuality_quiz
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gaydar/dont_let_the_door_hit_you_on_the_way_out

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Owl
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Talking to someone is a good idea - sometimes through just verbalising what you feel, you realise things that you wouldn't've otherwise.
I know how it feels to not really know where you're at - but take solace in the fact that you don't have to put a label on it, and if you do, you don't HAVE to wear that label for EVERYONE to see.

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