I recently posted about my confusion as to whether I'm straight or bi. Sorry to post again, but I have another question.
What do I do if one of the girls I think have feelings for is my roommate? Am I obliged to tell her? Can I not tell her and try to sort it out on my own? Should I make different living arrangements?
Sorry to ask more questions, I'm just still in the process of figuring all this out. Thank you so much again!
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If I was your roommate this is what I would think: in my opinion, you don't have to tell her unless you find it hard to act respectful towards her and her privacy. Even if you are truly attracted to her, if you don't make her feel uncomfortable, and you don't feel uncomfortable living with her, I think it's fine to keep your feelings to yourself.
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Thanks so much! That was what I was thinking as well, but I just wanted to make sure that that was OK. I really appreciate it!
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