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Hater
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Okay, so I finally came to terms with my homosexuality/bisexuality (I'm still not sure which) and I came out to my friends.
Thats not the whole reason I'm posting though. Theres this new girl at my school and we've become friends. She is a proud bisexual and I think she likes me. I don't know though so I was wondering if someone could help me figure it out. She likes to hold my hand sometimes (with inter-laced fingers), sit on my lap, and she once joked about kissing me, I really like her too actually so I was thinking I should maybe tell her how I feel but I'm really not sure if I should. Please help [Big Grin]

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Trying to infer someone else's feelings and intentions from their actions is really no more than guesswork, and pretty useless in situations like these. However, what will get you an answer is simply asking. [Smile] If you've been spending a lot of time together, and you've both been open about your sexuality, it shouldn't be such a leap for you to ask whether she has feelings for you, or to disclose how you feel about her.

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lozzab
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If she likes you and you like her well go for it! If she's your friend she will understand how you are feeling.
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Yakri
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Just tell her you like her that way!

It worked out great for me. ^_^


Shuffling your feet putting off just getting it out and telling her will just make getting rejected hurt more if it happens, and not getting rejected less likely to happen.

Such has been my experience.

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Thanks everyone, for the help. I really appreciate it and I'll certainly take your advice into consideration. [Big Grin]

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quote:
Originally posted by Abberkadabbers:
Okay, so I finally came to terms with my homosexuality/bisexuality (I'm still not sure which) and I came out to my friends.
Thats not the whole reason I'm posting though. Theres this new girl at my school and we've become friends. She is a proud bisexual and I think she likes me. I don't know though so I was wondering if someone could help me figure it out. She likes to hold my hand sometimes (with inter-laced fingers), sit on my lap, and she once joked about kissing me, I really like her too actually so I was thinking I should maybe tell her how I feel but I'm really not sure if I should. Please help [Big Grin]

all of that seems like shes just flirting for fun. at least she knows youre bi/gay and she knows shes teasing prolly.

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