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I am a 15 year old male. I find myself most days watching male porn, and fascinated by penises. This is an obsession I can't seem to break. I love the look of a penis. You probably think you can just stop reading and call me gay, but I find no attraction to actual guys that I know or any guys I see in porn. I just like the look of dicks is all. I have been with many girls and love being with them, but I am wondering two things: am i bisexual? and will watching gay porn make me unable to get an erection when with a girl?
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Actually, we don't make the kinds of assumptions about orientation you seem to think we will. As well, it'd be pretty weird to suggest someone who has expressed they are strongly interested in the opposite gender was homosexual, just like it'd be odd to suggest someone who had strong interest in sexual or romantic relationships with those of the same sex was heterosexual.

You have a penis: other guys have penises. You like looking at them. Okay.

Do you feel any emotional and sexual attraction to men in real life? If so, then at this time, it doesn't sound very likely that you're bisexual.

But if you are, or figure out later on in life you are, that's totally okay: lots of us are bisexual, and there isn't a thing wrong with that.

And no, watching gay porn is unlikely to have any impact on your penis with girls, but you can certainly find that out for yourself over time. [Smile]

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