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I am not sure whether I am a lesbian or just mildly bisexual. To start with I have never lasted long in a relationship with a male( actually my longest was 4 monthes)I have a hard time imagining having sex with a boy, I find it easier to imagine myself having sex with a girl. However I now have a boyfriend , we have been dating for 3 monthes,but I do not see myself dating him very long. But sometimes I wonder what having sex with him would be like. Also I am more turned on by naked women than naked men. I have a hard time masturbating to pictures of naked men. But at times I am turned on by them. I would just like to clarify that I have never had sex with anyone, yet. Please do not get the wrong idea I do like men I just am not sure which I which i like more. Men or Women? Please help me!
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It is perfectly normal to be having mixed feelings, especially when it comes to ones sexual orientation. I consider myself bisexual, and let me just say that there is nothing wrong with it. You said that you have been in relationships with men, and that you are turned on more by a naked woman. Have you ever envisioned yourself in a relationship with a woman of just men?
If you really think you may be bisexual, I suggest maybe dating men and women. That way you can see if you can emotionally be attracted to a woman, not just phsically.
Hope that helped some. It might help if you give more specifics,like how deeply your emotions are towards women. Do you just think that it would be easier dating a woman, or is it much more than that?
- Lauren

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